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View Article  My Granddad's Free Glasses

(Written by a twelve-year-old Chinese girl who will be studying in England again this fall)

          When I was young I lived with my grandparents.  My grandma is a really loving and kind person, and granddad is kind, too, he’s always very dignified.   That’s probably because he was a director general when he was younger, and he expects everyone to give him respect.

          One day, he was having a nap after lunch, and as I observed him, he didn’t seem to look his age at all.  He looked much younger, and I felt as if I had to do something to make him laugh because he hardly every laughs or smiles any more. 

 

          As his birthday was coming up, and he always uses a magnifying glass to read, I decided to give him a pair of glasses.  They’re very expensive in the stores, so I made him a pair.  I took a colored pen from his desk, and thinking that green would suit him best, I drew a pair carefully on his face.  I felt as if I could be an artist when I grow up because they looked so realistic.  Looking at his amazing glasses, I laughed, and the sound woke him up. 

          What’s up?” he asked with a straight face – not knowing that the glasses  made him look very different.   

          I rarely go to the park with him, but was so happy with what I’d done that I decided to offer, and said, “Would you like to go for a walk when you get up?”  I was trying my hardest to cover the funny feeling inside of me.

         

          “Yeah – ‘ya tou’ – you changed your mind?  For once you want to take a walk with me.”  Listening to him, I was so happy, as I felt that what I’d done was just amazing, and so we both got changed and started on our walk. 

    

          On the way, everyone – especially our neighbors – had wild looks on their faces when they saw granddad.   I knew why they looked that way, but he was obviously wondering what was happening.  “What’s so strange about me?” he kept saying.

          “No, there’s nothing….of course not….you look just the same.”  I was laughing inside, but didn’t want him to find out what was happening.  It was just amazing.  I had no idea how it would end.  He realized that something was wrong as everyone was laughing, but he didn’t know what it was.

          “What is it?  Do I look really bad?   Or is it you?  I don’t really understand what is happening.  Normally people don’t look at me like this.  They respect me.  I wonder why they don’t today.”

 

          “Ha!  I thought to myself; I’ve got you this time.”

          When we arrived back home, my grandma had finished her nap, and she burst out laughing when she saw her husband.  “Hmm, you’re nice looking today!” and that comment made granddad ever more curious.  I did a “shush” sign to grandma, and she nodded to let me know she understood.

          “What is wrong with me?  When I walked on the street everyone seemed to look at me as if I was a beggar or something?  What is it?  Tell me!”

          “Well….”, I said, “Do you promise that you’ll not be angry when you find out?”  I was trying to keep out of trouble by saying that. 

          “Okay!  Whatever!  Just tell me.  It is really getting on my nerves.  Why is everyone talking about me?  What’s wrong?”

          I couldn’t wait any longer and said, “Just go and look at the mirror in the bathroom”, and then ran straight to my room.  Even though I locked the door, I could hear him shouting “What!  What will the neighbors think about me?

          I thought it was quite funny that he was so angry and couldn’t help laughing while I was still alone in my room.

          When I came out, however, I realized how angry he was and wanted to tell him I was really sorry, but I couldn’t find him at first.  He was still in the bathroom washing his face.

 

          Grandma was laughing, but I didn’t hear my granddad laugh at all…not even once. 

 

View Article  Needing to Renew Old Friendships

(This article was written by a student who will be starting university studies in Macao this fall)

          I was much more diligent than most of my classmates when I studied in senior one and two.  In those two years, I put 99% of my energy into my courses, 0.85% into my meals, and 0.15 for everything else.  As a result, I received good results in the senior one final examination and ranked 8th out of 52 students.  I also began to excel at classroom recitation after I changed to being more active, and found that I was more popular.  I even got elected to the class parliament and got more help from the teachers. 

 

          However, the main thing on my mind was my courses.  No matter what else happened, that was always the main thing on my mind so I ignored opportunities for friendship with my classmates and the teachers.  They were quite willing to be friendly, but I refused to become involved.  On several occasions, they were hurt by my indifference.  I didn’t mean to do that; it just happened before I was conscious of it.

 

          At the beginning of the 2nd semester in senior two, I decided to become more friendly, but then got in trouble with my studies.  Physics and Chemistry were both difficult.  I became anxious about it and decided that studying would have to come first; friendships could wait. 

 

          During that time, I hit a really bad patch.  No matter how hard I studied, I wasn’t satisfied with the results.  Every night when lying in bed I was too tired to sleep, and I had headaches.  In the dark, I’d ask myself why this was happening, but there was never an answer  

 

          Even though I was in a fog that semester, I was selected to be part of an experimental class, and I hoped I’d leave my troubles behind in that new learning environment.  I also hoped that my old friends would understand why I had left them.

 

          As luck would have it, however, things didn’t go as smoothly as I wanted.  I had once enjoyed studying alone in the study hall, but in senior three I felt lonely when doing that even though I sat in my usual seat and looked out the same window.  The same building and trees were there, but my happy feelings like the wind had blown away.

 

          I have now finished life in the senior school, and most of my old friends will go to different places.  The amount of time we’ll spend together will be very little.  They may forget me one day, but I will never forget them, as I have tasted the feeling of being without friends.

 

 

 

 

 

View Article  My Friend

(Written by a Chinese girl while on summer vacation from a school in England)

            In the UK, I have a friend named Suemian.  She comes from Korea, has been in England only two years, and is very smart looking.  For 8 years, she had played the piano, but she gave it up this summer because she thinks people her age don’t need to go higher than level 7.  She’s also an amazing singer and is already at level 5.  The most important thing about her, however, is that she’s always nice to everyone.  

            She has long black hair, wears glasses and is really skinny.  She looks anorexic to  most of us.  She is funny, loud, musical, and greedy.  She’s also gullible for she believes everything people say.

            Now that she has gone to another school I realize that she is a true friend.  We shared things like tuck and things like that, but the two of us don’t do things by ourselves often because I have lots of other friends and seem to forget her every time I’m making plans. 

            When she is with me, I’m always conscious of the fact that she is the only person I know who is always willing to be nice to me.

            I’m going to tell you something that happened about four weeks ago.  I was in the same house with her for the weekend because we share a guardian.  We were watching a film, and she was eating cookies at the same time, as she says eating is a hobby and she never wants to stop doing it.  When I went upstairs, she continued to watch the worst film ever made in history, and she probably kept on eating the cookies, too. 

            A little while later, she came up with half a cookie in her mouth, and I was really angry at her for eating all the time, so I ignored her for about 3 minutes.

            She kept asking me what was happening, and I could see she was upset and really didn’t know what she had done wrong.  That made me even angrier, of course, but I looked at her, and it was obvious that she was confused.  I didn’t want to be horrible and ignore her, but I chose to anyway.  She had no idea what she had done wrong.

            Then I looked at her again and she was making up her mind about what she’d say to me. It took her awhile, but she finally said, “Well… I came up here to give you a cookie.  …I ate half, and here is your half.”

             I felt so bad, so embarrassed for not understanding what she had intended to do.    She had treated me like a real friend.  I know that’s what friends do.  I can’t believe I didn’t give her a chance to explain what she was doing.  I felt as if I had done something really horrible, but the cookie was yummy.  I don’t think I’ll ever tell her why I was so angry with her.

            But all of that isn’t the point of my story.  My point is that she’s just so amazingly nice.  She acts that way with everybody.  It forces you to love her to bits in return.

            On the other hand, there is a really difficult, even contentious girl named Bronte that no one seems to like very much.  One day she was crying because her dog had died, and every one just laughed at her - and that includes me - but Suemian became really angry at those people for doing that.  She was mad at me, too, and she’s such a popular girl in school that everyone stopped laughing and went away.

            That was the first time I’d seen her so angry, and after it was all over I asked her if she thought it was worth it to act like that.  She answered that she always wanted to treat everyone fairly.  She said, “It’s not fair to laugh at someone whose pet has died.  I just don’t think that anyone should be treated unfairly.”

            I didn’t really understand her, I mean, is it worth it - for someone like Bronte – to shout at all your friends?  So I asked again why she did it, and she answered, “Let’s put it this way; you don’t want to be treated like that, do you?  If you don’t, you shouldn’t treat other people like that.  Yes, It’s worth it!”

That’s my Suemian.  She’s such a nice girl, and a smart one, too.  Everybody is just forced to love her to bits.  I’m glad that she is my friend, as she has taught me two very important lessons”  1) to treat everyone as you would like to be treated and 2) to put trust in your friends and your family.

 

 

 

 

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