(Written by John, a high school student in Beijing)
Everyone has the ability to make decisions regarding the course their life will take. It is not the hypothetical force called fortune that determines issues or events for us. We must avoid thinking that our lives are foreordained. As long as we try our best to work toward realistic goals, we will create a satisfactory life regardless of the family into which we were born, the environment in which we live, or the type of education we have.
Some people believe that when they’re born, a plan for their life is already in place. They feel that an unseen force, sometimes called a God, has decided beforehand how they will make every decision. Those who believe that their actions are guided by fate can easily slip into the feeling that life should be lived day by day without consideration of the consequences as “everything will work out”. That is very unfortunate, as it could very well prevent us from reaching our optimal potential.
Sometimes we need to fight with ourselves. Ideas in our minds such as preordination stop us from going forward. If we reject the thought that our lives have been predestined, we will make the best of our time on earth.
I once read a book about Helen Keller who was deaf and blind and couldn’t hear or speak. She was very headstrong until she met Anne Sullivan who became her lifelong teacher. Anne Sullivan was a kindhearted woman. She, too, had problems with her sight, but they were corrected through surgery when she was young. That experience helped her understand Helen’s problems more clearly, and she was able to teach her to speak and then to read books in Braille. When Helen was in college, the work continued, and she was graduated with honors. Because of her success in overcoming handicaps she was in demand as a speaker in many countries. As a result she became an inspiration to people all over the world.
A disabled person made changes in her life that were of interest to us all. How many of us would have been as strong as she? Those of us who give in to the thought that our lives are predestined are fainthearted. Helen pursued her dreams and tried her best to achieve them. Her spirit should be helpful to all of us in realizing our dreams.
One should never surrender to the thought that our lives are foreordained. We have the freewill to select the paths that will lead us into a rich and full life.