(Written by a former physics instructor in Shanghai)
A neighbor came to my door to say that something may have happened to Andrew. When she had passed his apartment, the door was open and she could see his daughter-in-law talking with the administrator of the building. She didn’t know what they were talking about but worried that Andrew was involved. He might have gotten much sicker.
I knew that he had needed help the day before and guessed that it might be sad news so I went immediately to his apartment. His son and daughter-in-law met me at the door and described how Andrew had died in the early morning. He hadn’t been feeling well for several days. The daughter-in-law had eaten dinner with him the previous evening, but then went home after he went to bed. When she'd returned this morning, she found him lying peacefully in bed, but he was no longer breathing.
About a week ago, I'd seen him with his walker in the lobby, and he’d happily shown me photographs of his great grandson. I had asked him about his health, and he had said that he felt fine except for a little pain in his leg. I’d then had to excuse myself as a friend was waiting for me, but urged him to take care of himself and added that I’d see him again for the discussion we’d plan to have about religion. I told him I’d postponed it too many times. I regret now that I didn’t keep that promise.
Even though he was 95 years old, I can’t believe that he has left us.
He usually had good health and was able to do everything for himself. We’d see him in the lobby every day – talking with both Chinese and American residents, as he spoke English very well. He was always willing to discuss the research he’d done on religion and science. Known for his erudition, he also liked literature. He taught me many things including how to go about learning learning English.
I have memories of his having told me a story about a disaster in Taiwan in which houses of many people had collapsed, but nothing had changed in his home, and none of his family had been hurt. After the tragedy, a friend had asked about his family, and he had replied that he’d been fortunate, that everyone was fine. Afterwards, he’d thought he’d been selfish, that he’d just been concerned that his family had been unscathed and hadn’t thought of the tragedy that had occurred in other people's lives.
He had once told me that his research in religion had led him to believe that heaven wasn’t some far off place that one might go after death; it was in one’s heart if they were unselfish and peaceful. He certainly did his best to create a heaven right here on earth by being kind to everyone, loaning his books to anyone interested, and teaching those who wanted to learn. I had great respect for him as a teacher.
His father had been a minister and had raised him to be a good christian. His mother had hoped that he’d follow in his father’s footsteps, but in college, he'd chosen to study engineering, and then became an engineer in the aircraft manufacturing industry. That occupation must not have been satisfying for he then started to study theology and became a minister who won the praise of his congregation with his preaching.
As he was so gifted, one of his friends – who was also a minister – wanted to discuss religion every time they were in each other’s company. As a result, Andrew worked for a year on composing a report of his research on the relationship between science and religion. Included were his thoughts about physics, astronomy, philosophy, and history. He sent the report to his friend and also gave me a copy, as he wanted to discuss it with me. Unfortunately, I only read part of it and never talked with him about it. Now it’s too late.
When I moved to the apartment building in which he was living, we became friends and Ilearned a lot from him. It’s sad to think that I’ve lost a good friend and a respected teacher. I’ll remember him forever.